How strict is the military on dating in the Guard and Reserves?

by GirlGetter





Hello, I am a Cadet in the Army and will be commissioned at the end of this school year. My question is I met a girl who is joining the Navy reserves and plans to become an officer too but won’t be able to for at least another half school year. My question is we have so much in common and have a lot of fun together but I was just wondering how strict the reserve side would be on dating somone from another branch who is also in the reserves and is planning to become an officer but isnt at the moment? I know there is a good chance that I wouldnt even half to sneek around because in the reserves no one would even know since it is a once a month thing but I dont really want to get in trouble at all.

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{ 6 comments… read them below or add one }

nature lover March 4, 2010 at 1:44 am

There will be no problem at all. You are both officers. The problem will be that you will most likely be stationed in different parts of the world.

Iceman March 4, 2010 at 1:54 am

i dont think it should be a problem but just try and keep the relationship on the down low in its initial stages just in case if things dont work out you will have deniablitiy rights

kevw25 March 4, 2010 at 1:55 am

As long as you are both officers you will have no problems, except you may get sent to different parts of the world.

sh2448 March 4, 2010 at 2:11 am

don’t hide it. now if she was enlisted there may be a problem. who knows you could even get stationed at the same base. the military is moving a lot toward joint operations. almost every base, post, or whatever you want to call it has individuals from all branches. it just depends on both of yall’s jobs.

daBreezemeister March 4, 2010 at 2:18 am

You’re fine. Don’t even worry about it. First of all it is a weekend warrior job, and second, it’s a preexisting relationship.

gib000 March 4, 2010 at 2:53 am

Its two different branches of the military and if it is preexisting your fine. I attempt to date many girls in my guard unit, as long as they are are under e-4 I’m fine.

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