Need a bit of Christian dating advice?
Question by : Need a bit of Christian dating advice I’ve been out of my girlfriend for six moths now. I vaguely remember hearing somewhere that if a Christian in the dating world, it is important to know whether the person your dating is a virgin or not. (I may be totally wrong on this) I have no intentions of having a sexual relationship until I’m married, but still, it is important to know? And if it is – how would I go about finding out? Can I just bluntly ask? I try to take God into everything I do, that would date and I just want to do what is right to take. Thank you and God bless. Best answer:
Reply by Pink Panther
Um yes just ask no big deal
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He Ate My {♥}
21 Jan, 2012
God bless you:)
Leanne
21 Jan, 2012
How can you have been with someone for six months and not know if she’s a virgin? You need to ask her, I doubt they would mind …
dɩsco never dɩed
21 Jan, 2012
Well, it’s good to know that you trust your partner. I would not say it all as bad as she is a virgin. But, if they are not comfortable discussing that, it might be a sign that you need to find someone else. If she says it’s none of your business, it is wrong. Commitment means exactly what it says it means. And, if she is willing to work for you, she should be able to say without worry.
Ross James
21 Jan, 2012
It is impossible to answer a question when you deal with the logical illogical world of religion. But I will try anyway, and hope to bring a degree of common sense. If you ask your girlfriend or she is a virgin “None of Your Business” is all the answer you deserve. You have to judge her for who she is and not what they did in the past. If you can not accept it, and believe in her and love her as she is, then break up NOW haar.Dan start hanging around elementary schools and mosques to find a potential wife. That the only places where you have a good chance of finding a virgin.
Nattilee
21 Jan, 2012
From my understanding of Christian beliefs (I am not one myself, but have some very dedicated best friends) that you do not like someone before marriage, unless they are a Christian. As far as dating goes alone, it is probably not that big of a deal. The idea of a Christian has a lot to do with sharing the influence of Jesus Christ with as many people as you can, and probably it is almost impossible for you to successfully influence someone you’re romantically inclined or if met.Voor virginity is, if a devout Christian as you say you are, then she is either a virgin or a born-again virgin (meaning they lost, but the back instead of a new belief system), and unless you have a real stickler, a born again virgin is not a big deal, as long as one is not born again, or something like eight time vreselijks.Ik am shocked that you are in a relationship for six months without talking about sex. And that probably means she’s also done a virgin, and not in a place she wants to lose. If you really want to talk about sex, you can bring social aspects (how young people are busy), biological aspects (how, when we reproduced asexually everyone in society would be able to babies to make, not by current methods only by half, why is that? btw there is an answer), spiritual aspects (there’s a lot of spiritual stuff out there about sex, you probably should go to the dirty part of the Bible or something like that .. haha). Yet I can not believe that issue was simply not come. How old are you? What do you and your girlfriend talk? How much time do you spend together? I think I’m his ethnocentric. It’s just in my social circle, you can make a call of the bat by asking someone if they are a virgin or their most embarrassing moment, or why they pull on the other days. (Social circle is, people I am very close to, but a friend six months had to some know-how)
Jeffrey W
21 Jan, 2012
When I first girl I thought was a potential girlfriend met, I began trying to help her recover from a fracture. This relationship, she was primarily sexual, but I did not ask her. I would like the levels of sexual experience, the future partner know, just to ensure that: a) we were on a level playing field, and b) to ensure that if we are serious in terms of marriage that she had no STDs. Right now, if I wanted to find that kind of information I would want to talk about your family and any health problems that may impede that possibility. If they volunteer that information, then fine but just to be out of her six months not to directly or they can leave you because either: they begin to think that sex is your only motive with her, or sex is a sensitive subject for her. Keep God as one of the most important issue and I hope that things work out for you.
'Sunnyside Up'
21 Jan, 2012
It is important to note that for the simple reason that if the person you have played on the field even more than once then they may not even be a Christian and can also accommodate other secrets that you do not meet the high a tell. They can also carry diseases that can be gotten by playing around like herpes or worse genetil. When she played for her Christianity, and has come to terms with God because God is treating her the same way he treated Magdelin Mary in the Gospels, and she was forgiven, and then she went and sin no more ‘the tells us and became one of the most loyal followers of the Lord. God is a forgiving God, so if they do not clean and sins of the past then it is up to you whether you are a real virgin or a repentant sinner like but it is very important that you discover what it is that. To do that, sit with her first and ask her if she is born again and live her faith. If they do not then you are wrong yolked with her so you must witness her and get saved. This is the first step. Then share your heart about your virginity and find out if she has sex before marriage. If they do not say they will continue every other kind of secret to you as well, so not a good relationship. Every relationship should be honest about his foundation. Look at her eye contact with you as well and facial expressions. Then you will know if they lie about or be completely honest. You can even set the date and marry a girl in the past sins, but what she does in the present and if she has given her heart to the Lord, that is the problem of having a relationship. God does not single out a sin over another. He says: “We all have sinned and come short of His glory.” and “All sin is sin in his eyes.” So you’re just as guilty for what sins you have committed, just like everyone else. You have these past sins and God and you are in a good relationship now. If they done then he is not her sins no longer remember or he makes you remember. Then just to make if you really want someone who is “totally a virgin and not just a born again Christian with a background check by having prior contact with another guy. I commend you on your stand. During this time you are in the permanent minority, but in the right state with your God.
Snejana
21 Jan, 2012
Hey man, that’s great, I really respect you for saving yourself for marriage … Well, you can not just bluntly asks her … start with something like “you know, we’ve been together six months and I want to know more about you and I want you to know more about me … I am a virgin and plan to keep myself that way till i married … how about you? … “and then go on to assure her that you will not hate her or leave her even if she did not .. Just a safe gevoelGod bless her!