Q&A: How would you react to the guy you started dating got a girl pregnant before he started dating you?
Question by morganfam42000: How would you react to the guy you started dating got a girl pregnant before he started dating you?
Out of curiousity if you started dating a guy, and the guy found out a month before you started dating him that he was going to be a father. You have children of your own. Would you still be dating him, would you stop him from being a father, or only allow him to be a every other weekend father? How would you handle the situtation?
And guys if you started dating a girl a month after you found out you were going to be a dad. Would you stay with a girl that would not allow to you be a father more then every other weekend, and just want you to be a father her kids?
Best answer:
Answer by Lucky
“only allow him to be a every other weekend father”… I would hope that if he was a decent person, he would not want to date someone who cares so little about the wellbeing of his children.
A person who is so selfish that they would want this doesn’t deserve a partner.
Children should always come first. If I dated someone and found out that he had kids that he didn’t really see, I would break up with him.
A real man/woman would not act this way about kids.
I hope you’re a troll
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Well, unfortunately you’re not a troll and this sad tale is true…
In order to act the way she has, your friends girlfriend must be really self-centred, controlling, and paranoid. How else would she feel so threatened by a baby?
Your friend is in for a life of misery with this woman. A strong man would tell her that what she’s asking of him is not ok, and that he (as a real man) lives up to his responsibilities and plans to be a fantastic father to all his children.
What do you think? Answer below!
